Last few days, I went to Johor with my family to visit my grandmother. Yesterday (30 Mac 2008-Sunday), something happen in my life. I'm quite shocked but I won't object on any of what had been happen to me. Maybe it's fate for me.
Firstly, I thought my parents just want to meet my grandmother, unfortunately, the truth is, they intend to propose pre-engagement for someone in my family. It's me...arghhhh, I don't know what to do.
My grandmother knows her parents very well since child. Actually, they plan to propose for my uncle but when my uncle engaged last december 2007, so, the plan had been discontinued but their plan going on back when my parents ask my grandmother to find "jodoh" for me....atuk... Jodoh dan Pertemuan ketentuan Allah SWT.
I'm getting to know her. Her name, Azlinda. She is younger than me. I do hope she can accept me & my family. Hopefully, I can make everyone happy especially Azlinda, my parents and my grandmother.
~adakah aku akan ke alam pertunangan semula pada tahun ini ?~
Firstly, I thought my parents just want to meet my grandmother, unfortunately, the truth is, they intend to propose pre-engagement for someone in my family. It's me...arghhhh, I don't know what to do.
My grandmother knows her parents very well since child. Actually, they plan to propose for my uncle but when my uncle engaged last december 2007, so, the plan had been discontinued but their plan going on back when my parents ask my grandmother to find "jodoh" for me....atuk... Jodoh dan Pertemuan ketentuan Allah SWT.
I'm getting to know her. Her name, Azlinda. She is younger than me. I do hope she can accept me & my family. Hopefully, I can make everyone happy especially Azlinda, my parents and my grandmother.
~adakah aku akan ke alam pertunangan semula pada tahun ini ?~
18 comments:
tahniah! org tua selalu tau apa yg terbaik utk kita :) moga bahagia dan dipermudahkan segala urusan
terima kasih.
;) Assalamualaikum. I can't help but smile and geleng-geleng kepala at the same time. I am so sorry for being a little naughty.
My only advice is PERFORM SOLAT ISTIKHARAH. I disagree with the notion that orang tua selalu tahu apa yang terbaik untuk kita. I am so sorry. I have to disagree.
PLEASE PERFORM SOLAT ISTIKHARAH kerana HANYA ALLAH S.W.T SAHAJA YANG TAHU APA YANG TERBAIK UNTUK DIRI KITA. Solat Istikharah. Follow your heart. Trust your heart. You bertunang or berkahwin bukan untuk membahagiakan orang lain but YOU MUST BE HAPPY FOR YOURSELF, too.
Gosh, I'd better stop writing. I am writing psychology now. And I am sure most people don't like to read my views because I juz can't think like them, sebab itulah my blog mengundang people who love to study about me *naughty giggles*
Take care.
thank you for your opinion princess shieda. pada masa ini saya ingin mengenalinya terlebih dahulu. nampaknya perkenalan ini berjalan dengan baik. memudahan begitulah hendaknya. lagipun pada masa ini saya masih single dan tiada any serious relationship with any woman in my life. pada hemat saya, tak salah berusaha untuk kali ini.
princess shieda, for your info, long few years ago, my engagement had been failed. Pada masa itu memang saya mencari sendiri tapi gagal dipertengahan jalan, kini saya menerima apa sahaja yang ditakdirkan. fobia juga bila nak kenal mana2 wanita lepas tu.
tak sangka princess shieda meluangkan masa juga menjenguk laman saya yang tak seberapa ini.
thanks raden.
Assalamualaikum saudara,
I don't usually visit other people blogs except my students'. But hati I terbuka untuk membaca your blog today. I told everyone in my blog how much I trust my instinct. And I am sure you have been following my taggy yang banyak mengundang pendebatan fikiran. Baguslah kalau you ingin mengenalinya. Alhamdulillah, hati you sudah terbuka dengan sendirinya. That's great, isn't it? NIAT YANG BAIK DAN LAHIR DARI BATINIAH YANG IKHLAS IS VERY IMPORTANT. Tetapi apa salahnya melakukan solat istikharah dalam masa yang sama, right? Well, I know exactly how you felt when putus kasih and putus tunang. But it's okay, ada hikmah di sebalik setiap kejadian. Hanya di saat ianya berlaku, mata kita di butakan dengan sendu kesedihan. Kenali diri kita. InsyaAllah, we'll be able to stay in the right track.
And if after you perform solat istikharah, hati you tenang dan bahagia bersama insan yang terpilih, mulakanlah hidup baru bersama-samanya dengan kalimah Bismillahirahmanirrahim. I'll pray for you.
I am so sorry to take up so much space & leave advices after advices in your humble blog. I can't help it and I can't just shut up when I have a lot to say. I tahu apa ertinya DI LUKAI. And Solat Hajat & ISTIKHARAH works for me. InsyaAllah, it will work for you, too. Salam.
Dari Tarasul Jiwa Yang Ikhlas, Raden Puteri.
terima kasih.
(smile)
yusairi,
panjang cik puan kita tu tulis. Aku pun nyaris gak kena macam kau. Kalau lewat 2-3 bulan, memang melalui pengalaman serupa.
apapun, take your time.
hehehehe...
memudahan semuanya berjalan dengan baik.
thanks sunardi & raden...
Salam. Tahniah ya. Jangan lupa jenput Alam nanti.
Alam Setia,
kalau tiada halangan, akan pakLong jemput...
Tahniah Yus..Sesungguhnya pilihan keluarga adalah pilihan yg terbaik...i'Allah kali nie Yus akan ke jinjang pelamin...jgn lupa jemput
Insya Allah, memudahan semuanya berjalan dengan baik.
yus...congratz..n tak tahu nak cakap pe..melainkan..i'm hepi for u..--dla--
tinie doakan ur relationship bjaya if that is the best for u... smoga hub u all diberkatiNya..Amin
terima kasih pd tinie & dila...
:)
dila, sampaikan salam saya pd syed.
tinie, sampaikan salam saya pd rosdi.
lama tul tak baca blog ko nie
hahah what a good news bro.. aku mmg sentiasa doakan ko yus.. as per prncess ckp tu ade betulnya..
ko pun bukan tak tau org johor ni baik2 belaka hahaha
mana tau aku leh turun johor ke nanti lama gak tak pi johor tu
Kisah silam bukan penentu kisah akan datang... ia sekadar ujian agar kita lebih memahami diri sendiri dan orang lain, seterusnya memberi peluang kita mendekati Allah... Nasihat ku wahai sahabat :
1) Syukur dengan apa yang ada,
2) Tingkatkan usaha untuk apa yg kurang/lemah,
3) Redha, berserah, dan tawakal atas apa jua yang ditentukan...
4)Berkenalan dan hidupla bersama atas kasih sayang, kesabaran, tolak ansur dan sentiasa berdoa mengharap keredhaan Allah.
Pandanglah ke dalam hati kerana pandangan mata sering kali tertipu.
thanks lan and jan.
aku hargai nasihat yang diberikan.
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